I am in the midst of creating a talk about the light and the darkness. If you have ever created a talk or a book or an essay, you may have had an experience like I'm having right now where everywhere you look, you see examples or inspirations of the subject matter on which you are focused. Lately, the world is teaching me and demonstrating for me light and darkness — and not just the light and darkness of day and night, happy and sad. So much more. It is stunning!
My daughter is an elementary school teacher. She teaches a 4th/ 5th combo class. Today she called me and told me this:
Tomorrow at her school, there will be an assembly where students are given awards. The teachers are to pick one or more students in their class who they think qualify as "A Best Friend," "A Future Author," "A Student With Perfect Attendance," "A Student Who Never Got Detention," "Amazing Artist," etc. The students who aren't chosen as each of those things will stay seated as the students who are being awarded for those behaviors stand.
It shatters my heart to even think about this.
How to define a person before they even have time to know who they are.
How to turn off a light.
But. And. There is a light shining in this story.
My daughter had a talk with her students yesterday. She asked them, "How can I know today whether or not you are a future author?" "If you are a good friend, and your friend is a good friend to you, what if I don't give them an award, too?" "When a student has been given detention for something they did that was against the rules, why should they be punished a second time, in front of the whole school, by sitting while those who have not been given detention stand?" And she said, "If you are sick, thank you for not coming to school and getting others sick! You don't have control over having perfect attendance."
Together my daughter and her students decided there are no awards for their class. They all decided that they will sit through the whole assembly.
They will sit with those who don't get to stand because of someone's judgments.
Those thirty-something lights are shining.
They have lit a flame in my heart.
They are lighting up our world.